In the United States, it is common to “make small talk.” These are little conversations that people do when waiting for the bus or standing in line at the grocery store. Sometimes it is considered rude to say nothing. Notice other people talking when you are doing your daily errands. Sometimes people say something about the weather or a recent event in your community.
When people get together at a party, small talk is a way to start a conversation. It is normal to be nervous the first time you meet people who speak a different language than you. Having some strategies to “break the ice” might help.
Try these ideas for making small talk:
- Even if you are unsure about what was said—smile! It is considered rude to not respond. It is always okay to say, “I don’t understand.”
- Try to keep negative words out of the conversation like “no,” “Don’t,” or “that is terrible.”
- Don’t talk about bad events, politics, religion or death. These are more serious conversations.
- Don’t talk about a person’s weight, clothing or appearance. People will call you a gossip and you don’t want that.
Practice making small talk and it will get easier each time.




